A girls right?

There is a lot of talk now about girls rights to their bodies.

And this makes me mad. Really mad.

There is no way that a guy can claim their right to touch a woman without their conctent. Or to make comments.

As a EM to a woman team, I´ll think about this everyday. To avert my eyes if the door to the locker room is opened. To ask if there is nobody still in there, so I can enter.

I hope that if anybody of the girls feels that I make a comment or otherwise do something that is not appropriate, they tell me. Or tell somebody else on the staff. Or just puch me in the mouth.

YOU, and only you decide what is ok. Some girls wants a hug and other does not. But it´s always up to the other part to say what´s ok or not.

I had a rough childhood, with abuse in it. More abuse that you can imagine. I like to think that it make me stronger. But, no. It has not. There is still nights that I´ll cry myself to sleep over it. But in everyday life I hopefully ignore it.

I can´t change the past. But I can change the future. And I hope that you will help me with that. Tell me what is wrong. Whatever.